Transformation of teenage girl to women will happen in your 20’s . In that 10 years that’s one decade of time the cute little girl will turn into professional manager , teacher , business women , mother. Its best time to have fun , gain knowledge and improve your skills in all aspects of life. Time and age are two things you can’t reverse or buy in your life . So plan and look at your life from your young age.
Life is totally unpredictable but its not meant you don’t need to plan your life you want to live. You need your education along with learning life reality. You never know what is hiding in next year or next day of your life. So prepare yourself everyday.
After 20’s you will enter into your 30’s ,if you wish or not wish this will going to happen in next 10 years. The clock is ticking around you. Just in 10 years, prepare yourself as best as you can . Live your 20’s by gaining good knowledge and strength.
In your 20s , you are started to gain life experience . You might have low self confidence , you might have financial issues, you might have inner fear what if you not shine in your 20s!!you might not have any good person to guide you in your 20s .
If you ask most of 30’s women ,they will say ,i don’t know this things in my 20s else i might have moved my life far better !!
It’s totally normal to have fear and worry about your future in your 20s. If you keep concentrate on good habits and willing to learn and expand your skills and if you yourself plan your 20s then you are going to gain ,attract lot more confident in your young age.
In 20’s it might look , you have plenty of time in your hand. But the reality is ” days looks longer but the years will end shorter ” . Take your 20s to develop yourself ,to prepare yourself as best.
Here are top 10 tips to utilize your highest energy in 20s at its best and before the time go out of your hand.
Things to do in your 20’s
1.Invest yourself in Reading good books.
Books are powerful tool to gain knowledge about life experience. Develop strong reading habit in your 20’s is more important , books will keep your mind updated and increase your thinking capability. Make books as your best friend from your young age. Start read real lifetime stories and self development books.
The book’s here referring are not story books, this books are real life skills teaching books. Inspirational books, read the real women life story – Biography of successful women, how they handled their life with love and struggle and achieve in life.
By reading books ,you’re easily gaining life experience ahead of your age . There knowledge will help you to handle your life with clarity .Register in your local library or buy online books or go for audio format books and develop the habit of reading books .
2.Try to Learn New skills
Your might dreaming about the girl who dance on the stage or singing in your classroom or you might dream to get into sports competition.
At 20’s you have lot more energy and time. Know your interest and learn some new skills like dancing, singing, drawing or anything you are interested instead of sitting and watching the Tv shows.
You need not be master in dance or singing or any form of art but give it a try. Utilize the source near you rather then searching and waiting for whole year which will kill your time.
3.Respect and Spend time with your parents
You will never get this time back with your parents. 20’s are the most valuable time to spend with your parents .
Your parents are the only person who are going to support your life’s ups and down till their life ends . Truly it’s not any of your true buddy friend in you teenage.
Your parents are young now and they are going to 10 years old when you turn to your 30’s . Look at your parents eyes ,help your parents with daily household chores.
Make food for your parents, whenever you are in home try to eat with your parents.
Give them respect and love and take everyday picture with you parents. As you move towards to 30s or to marriage life ,you might have to leave your parents .Only few people are living nearby there parents .Education and opportunity around the world make you to move apart from your parents.So spend quality time with your parents.
4.Start writing a Journal(diary)/ Letter
Teenage ,it’s there are lot easyway to get distracted.Writing dairy will help you to track your life ,mindset and activity .
Like reading books, make practice of writing your diary everyday. Your diary is another good friend of you and review your diary every week .
Set your lifetime goals , 10 years goals and 5 year goals and 2 year and 1 year goals. Anything to improve your life .Give importance to your health in another 10 year, what kind of person you want to be in another 10 years. Write it down everyday. You might not accomplish all your goals but definitely you might start move towards your vision.Diary will help you to Improve your skills and Correct your mistakes .
Write letter to yourself every end of the year and send it to your mail. When you read your mail next year or after 10 years , you can look at your life moments and thoughts as teenage girl.
5. What are the to don’t dos in your 20s
Don’t compare yourself to others.Start practice this from your young age will help you lifelong.
Don’t be Lazy by simply sitting and watching Tv or watching serials or shows . Try to be active by helping your parents , doing social work by utilizing your time and energy .
Do not spend more minute of your life with someone who makes you feel like you are less than you are – this apply for the friends and people in your life. Learn to stay away from them to keep yourself good.
Don’t rush your 20’s you have lot more year to come .Make strong basic in your 20s to establish strength in your later years of life.
Don’t buy expensive things to show in front of others. Be in your life reality or else you have to act all your life.
6.Decide your career life
In between 20s to 25 age , you have to decide your education followed by career . Going to job is highly depend on your career goal. The job which you start in 20s might change in later life.
For some people only ,the first job will fix as permanent job and mostly there will be career shifts will happen in later years. Starting your own business or pursuing your passion it’s all in your hands. Going to job ,working hard mostly depends on your lifetime goal .
7. Practice this in your 20s
Say No with confidence, you should be strong enough to say NO, it is best to practice the skill when you are young. Example, your friends are going to movie but you personally don’t like to go then firmly say no and move on, same in workplace and you need to utilise the word “NO”in your life journey.
Know your money value , if you want to live luxury life then earn more money rather than increasing you debit. If you increase your debit account in 20s then it will become issues for your 30s.
Take the risk more , “never allow the fear to win” . If you got interest in fashion designing or doing home schooling which is not related to your education.Take the risk and give your best to establish the business you want .
Love and choosing your right partner for your life long journey is most important in your 20s life.
Take care of your health and mind at earliest. If you practice good eating habit and exercise in your 20s that will save you lot of time and energy in your later age. Especially for girls , eating nutrient rich food and good exercise will help you lifelong health of you and your generation .
